My DD said to me is that she thinks I have adhd, and gave several examples of why she thinks that. Thinks I never realized or noticed about myself. I only pretty recently started spending a lot of time with her as she is helping care for me during my recovery, and moved closer to me to do that. I have great kids, btw. I am really starting to see myself differently, and some of it is hard and painful, but it is good to understand yourself better, and why people react to you in different ways. Too little, too late, as is the story of my life, but every thing helps.